Attached 💕

I’ve been putting off this pop-psych best-selling book for years—I get turned off by how often people think attachment theory explains everything about relating. But my wife wanted to read this together so I finally dove in... and surprise! I loved it! (Being influenced to do things we weren’t planning on is one of the many things I deeply appreciate about relationshipping). It’s a fun and easy read. It has solid examples that make attachment theory feel intuitive, and in my opinion doesn’t make the mistake that bugged me—claiming attachment style is the sole cause of good or bad relationships. It’s a solid tool for getting more clear on dynamics that can be otherwise confusing. Especially when brought with nuance, alongside the many tools for understanding humaning together.

With love, Jordan